LEADERSHIP is a lot more than most people think, there are factors that make one a great leader. Focus “It’s been said that leadership is making important but unpopular decisions. That’s certainly a partial truth, but I think it underscores the importance of focus. To be a good leader, you cannot major in minor Read More
Confidence is a state of mind that can be attained through deliberate actions. Giving time to cultivate your mind, body and spirit helps. Research suggests that Many professionals will at some point experience a psychological phenomenon known as impostor syndrome, compete with feelings of inadequacy and a fear that everything accomplished to date has Read More
Identity crisis is the world’s biggest problem. A lot of persons are lost in this path to self-discovery. People have become square pegs in around holes, trying to fit into descriptions given to them by the society, by friends, by circumstances, by culture etc.
Recently, there have been a lot of fights to be heard, women fighting to be heard, gender fights etc. In a world filled with so much noise and name tags, self-discovery becomes key to a fulfilled life.
So many voices in the world today tell you that there is nothing more than this life, that you’re simply a creation of your biology and culture, that contentment comes only through indulging your desires, appetites, and cravings. However, such voices speak without facts of what was before this life or what comes after. Therefore, they speak without knowledge of who you really are.
Most people spend their lives waiting for fulfillment. They cling to the idea that as soon as they get that job, as soon as they lose those last few pounds, as soon as they’re in a great relationship, then the gates will open and happiness will come rushing on through. Most people are misinformed. True happiness doesn’t come from wealth or beauty or status or anything external, it comes from within.
THE DISTORTIONS WE`VE BEEN FED WITH
STOLEN BY RELATIONSHIPS: There are relationships which are killing us on a daily basis. Such relationships where someone else’s view of us totally eclipses who we really are. A man or woman who totally obliterates his or her true self in other to create an identity acceptable by those who love them. Within there’s this strong desire to break through, but we are held bound by supposed love at the expense of freedom…
SOLUTION: the first relationship on earth was between man and his creator. Look around you, see the lavish of resources bestowed on man at no cost… first note that any relationship that leaves you down, depressed, unhappy isn’t worth keeping. Everything under the sun has its fit. Ask yourself if you fit in, if not walk away. What everyone deserves is unfailing love, love that places no unrealistic demands on your happiness.
It’s really scary, knowing that someone is living your life, calling the shots, you’ve never done the things you want to do, but always what another wants all the time, friend walk away. Live your life like it’s yours. When it comes to friends, quality is always better than quantity. Weed out the negative people in your life who drag you down and spend more time with positive, optimistic people who see the good in you and encourage you to be your best self.
SHUT OUT BY APPEARANCE: Very early in life I was really depressed. I wasn’t as tall as I wanted, people always laughed at me, mocked me. Soon whenever I looked in the mirror ALL I could see was a short guy and nothing else. A friend of mine, whenever we spoke, I was careful to always notice she would always say… ugly me. Soon I realized the mirror has done a great damage.
The search for a more productive life has led to certain misapprehension about what productivity really is — and it’s a lot more than checking tasks off your to-do list. Truly productive people aren’t focused on doing more things; this is actually the opposite of productivity. If you really want to be productive, you’ve got Read More
Feelings generally aren’t humans best friend. They’ve served times without number as oppositions to our accomplishments and overcoming those feelings eventually will become key to having a great life. Such feelings as inferiority complex. Inferiority complex as the designation proposes is a complex in which an individual has devastating feelings of inferiority. While we all Read More
Do you speak up in an assembly and no one pays attention? suddenly someone interrupts and instantly has the spotlight. Do others pitch their ideas and get noticed but when you try…nothing. At some point, each of us needs to make an impression on people, sell what we have. My company will change the world; please Read More
I knew instantly, the house could have been saved if Jude had called for help. From all he said I perceived self-reliance, which has cost him his house. his house would have been saved at least the fire wouldn’t have engulfed everything and at least he wouldn’t have been burnt this badly too. Everything would Read More
Successful folks incline towards patterns that build over time, with consistency and fortitude. Life is highly predictable, I’m sure you know this by now. What makes life predictable are principles. Fundamentally, life runs on the wheels of principles, break any of these principles and suffer regrets. Excel in everything you do following these five practices. Read More
He who wastes time wastes life. We don’t just allow people come into our lives and walk out just like that, when ever they choose. We create events, we can Manipulate circumstances but we cannot control how fast time goes, we can only make the best use of them. Also read more on www.mindhoarde.com Watch Read More
Successful people are not different people, they just act differently, that is why they get different results from everyone else. Success depends very much on knowing the right things to do, being in the right place at the right time, having the right idea, and so forth. Luck isn’t everything. Persistence play roles as well. As Read More